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CEREMONIES

sher benjamin

As a qualified wedding celebrant and ceremonial space holder, I guide and hold sacred gatherings that honour your life’s unfolding journey. From bespoke baby showers and new home blessings to birthdays, hen celebrations, and cacao circles, each ceremony is thoughtfully crafted with intention, beauty, and joy. These soulful experiences invite you to pause, connect, and celebrate your milestones as rites of passage with reverence, warmth, and care.

sher benjamin wedding in spain

WEDDING CEREMONIES

Your wedding ceremony is a sacred reflection of your unique love. This is a non-religious yet deeply spiritual ceremony, rooted in intention, presence, and a touch of magic.

 

Together, we co-create a ceremony that honours your journey, weaving your personalised love story into every moment so it a reflection that is authentic and truly yours. Whether you choose a handfasting ritual to symbolise your union or other meaningful elements, each detail is thoughtfully curated to celebrate your sacred union.

This is an experience that invites you and your loved ones to be fully present, to feel deeply, and to witness the beauty of your commitment in a way that is heartfelt, soulful, and unforgettable.

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DAN AND EVE

2024 in Sitges, Spain

 

Sher is connected to spirit in ways I can’t explain and inspired everyone on the day with love, laughter connection and peace. She is the pure embodiment of love and the ceremony she provided was so powerful and yet grounded at the same time. She carefully interwove the story of us as well as connecting us together in our marriage in the most beautiful ancient and modern ceremony.

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GRACE AND JOSH

2025 in Sussex, England

The wedding wouldn’t have been the same without Sher. Right from the start she intuitively asked the right questions to ensure we had the ceremony that was completely right for us. She deeply listened and cared about the ceremony we wanted and worked with us to make it a reality. 
Sher was everything we wanted and our wedding just wouldn’t have had the magic it did without her!

HEN CELEBRATIONS

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bride to be
smudge cleansing the bride

Celebrate the bride-to-be with a hen gathering that goes beyond the ordinary to a soulful, joy-filled experience blending connection, laughter, and a touch of spell casting.

This spiritual party weaves together fun rituals, uplifting yoga, and a heart-opening cacao and sharing circle, creating both playfulness and meaningful connection. Goddess prayer dance awakens vibrant feminine energy and joy, a celebration that nourishes the spirit and honours sisterhood. Surrounded by her closest circle, the bride is held in love as wishes and intentions of support are offered for her journey ahead.

BABY SHOWER | BLESSINGWAY

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baby way blessing ceremony

Celebrate the sacred transition from Maiden to Mother with a nurturing baby blessing ceremony, an intimate, heart-led alternative to the traditional baby shower. This offering invites you to gather in a circle of love, where the Mother-to-be is adorned with a flower crown, her baby bump gently painted as a symbol of creation, and surrounded by meaningful gifts and shared stories from the women in her life. Through soothing touch, including massage, and beautifully guided rituals, the space is held for deep connection, reflection, and honoring her journey. This is a Mother’s initiation, a moment to be witnessed, supported, and celebrated as she steps into her powerful new chapter.

HOUSE CLEARING |
NEW HOME BLESSING

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I offer bespoke house blessing and cleansing ceremonies to restore harmony and elevate the energy of your home. Through sacred smudging and shamanic drumming, I gently clear and rebalance the space, before welcoming in love and protection with soft chanting at the threshold. Each ceremony includes a gift of black tourmaline for grounding and protection.

We also sit together with ceremonial cacao to open the heart and deepen your connection to your home.

BIRTHDAY CEREMONIES

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birthday ceremony
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Celebrate your birthday as a sacred gathering, a moment to honour the beauty of your journey and welcome the year ahead with intention. My birthday ceremonies weave together heart-opening cacao circles, gentle birthday blessings, and the creation of a flower crown to adorn and celebrate you. Surrounded by your sister circle of friends, you’ll be guided through meaningful rituals and soulful reflections, offering space to release, renew, and set intentions for your next year around the sun. If you desire, an ecstatic dance session can be included in your celebration.

CACAO CEREMONIES

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Sher pouring cacao
Cacao ceremony
Step into a sacred circle and experience the gentle yet powerful medicine of Mama Cacao, an invitation into deep heart connection and inner awakening. Working with this sacred chocolate in a held, nurturing space, you’ll be guided through a meditation journey that opens the heart, quiets the mind, and reconnects you to your intuition. Through shared presence, reflection, and intention, this ceremony becomes a space for dreaming, releasing, and creating positive changes in your life. It is a soulful, supportive experience designed to nourish, inspire, and reconnect yourself to your love, passion and gifts within.

PRICING

£111 per hour for other Ceremonies

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